New York – A guide for the overwhelmed

Eleven years ago, I really wasn’t that fussed about seeing the USA. America just seemed too familiar to bother with. As a Brit, I’d seen so much of it in movies, music videos and tv shows, I felt like I’d already been there. My traveller’s heart was set on more exotic destinations: the forests of South East Asia, the fiords of New Zealand or the perilous African wilderness.

Truth be told, I’d rather be trekking in a rainforest than negotiating an urban jungle.

So, when the offer to go to NYC came up in 2007, I was a bit dismissive. What could possibly be enjoyable about visiting a huge, crowded city in a country that seemed about as exotic as Manchester?

Oh, the ignorance of youth.

Mark on the ferry to Ellis Island, NYC

The invitation of a trip to the Big Apple was presented by the Arts Institute at Bournemouth, where I was studying a degree in model-making. It was a big class excursion; a visit to some US architectural studios and design museums.

Oddly, I really wasn’t all that excited about going to New York. I resignedly booked my tickets with the rest of my class in a sort of FOMO way. Even on the plane there, getting sloshed on complimentary G&Ts, we joked about how utterly unenthusiastic I felt about it.

Imagine my reaction then, when I emerged (slightly hungover) from the New York subway and into a cityscape of iconic buildings and world-famous film locations.

It was like being smacked in the face with the Flatiron building.

Mark being mesmerised by Times Square, NYC

I went from being apathetic to awe-struck in seconds. The scale of the buildings. The spacious streets. The energy. The vibe…

NYC had cast its spell on me. I was so smitten with the place, I returned two years later, on a romantic break with my then-boyfriend Duncan. Each trip was a five-day itinerary, and I still didn’t manage to fit in everything I wanted to see.

When to go

NYC is one of those destinations that’s enjoyable at any time of the year, as there’s always something going on. That said, I’d say the most pleasant months to visit would be in the spring or autumn, when the temperatures aren’t so extreme. If you arrive in September and October, you’ll also see Central Park in a golden blaze of autumnal colour.

Photo by Ronile on Pixabay - Autumn colours in NYC

I’ve heard summers can be unforgivably hot in NYC, so consider the heat if you’re keen on doing walking tours. July and August are hottest, with temperatures climbing into the high 30s (around 80°F) but summer is also the season for open-air movies and festivals in the parks (think the Fourth of July, Gay Pride and myriad concerts). You can even do some kayaking on the Hudson.

I visited NYC in February, when there was ice on the river and the wind had knives in it. Although New York doesn’t really have an off-season, this time of year can be quietest after the Christmas buzz and New Year’s excitement.

A younger version of me, ice skating in Central Park

Winter is great for enjoying ice skating in Central Park. Both my visits to Manhattan included a frolic on the rink; there’s a pinch-me-I’m-dreaming feeling as you skate against a backdrop of skyscrapers in the centre of this city. Make sure you wrap up warm for long walks around Manhattan in the colder months. I recommend three layers of trousers and the kind of insulated headgear that’d make Scott of the Antarctic proud.

Lesson learned

On my first trip to NYC, the airline misplaced everyone’s luggage. We arrived in a freezing cold city with only our cabin-baggage and the clothes we were wearing. Some of my classmates had even boarded in London without a coat! Although we were all eventually reunited with our belongings, it was a good lesson to always take a spare set of underclothes in a carry-on bag, and to board your plane with clothes appropriate for the destination, not the place you just left (although why some of my classmates weren’t wearing winter coats in February in England is beyond me).

Ice on the River Hudson, NYC

See the sights

Despite my two trips and ten days in Manhattan, I only saw a fraction of the sights there. This post features a handful of the must-sees in New York, but you can also check out my list of “Further Reading” at the end of this post for links to some of my favourite itineraries.

Make time for Times Square

There’s something irresistible about Times Square. The bright lights and neon advertisements that dazzle all around you as you stand at its centre make you feel like a walk-on actor in a Hollywood movie. It’s such an iconic location. It was the first landmark I visited on my first trip to NYC and on my second visit I made sure I booked a hotel within walking distance of it.

Times Square, NYC

Some don’ts for Times Square: Avoid the open-top bus city tours that leave from here, as the traffic in mid-town Manhattan is so dense it’d be quicker (and less expensive) to get out and take in the sights on foot. And as romantic as the idea sounds, don’t bother with the half-day queuing to join the crowds on New Year’s Eve here, as the climatic ball-drop at midnight is quickly followed by hellish scenes of aimless revellers desperate to make their way to somewhere warmer and boozier. It’s a far from pleasant experience, according to a couple of people I’ve spoken to.

Birds-eye views

During our student trip, we made a beeline for the Empire State Building as the sun set, just catching the last rays over Manhattan from the top of this world-famous skyscraper.

NYC view of sunset

I remember staring out over the sea of yellow sodium lights that spread out all around Manhattan, completely awestruck by the vastness of human activity on our planet. The scale of this city is a sight to behold from the top of this tower. You can see a rather naff video of this experience at our YouTube channel here.

Entry for the 102nd floor viewing platform costs USD57 for adults and USD51 for children. You can book tickets at the official website for the Empire State Building – expect long lines for this landmark, especially at sunset!

View of NYC city lights at dusk

On my second trip to NYC, I made it to “the top of the Rock” at the Rockefeller Centre, and I have to say that I preferred this experience to the Empire State Building. While it’s not as tall, its position means you get a better view of Central Park and the other famous skyscrapers like the Chrysler. Into the bargain, you also get a view of the Empire State Building!

There’s a timed ticketing system that means you don’t have to wait in long lines to get in, and indoor and outdoor viewing platforms mean you can enjoy the incredible vista even in unpleasant weather.

NYC at sunset

Tickets for adults are USD32 (at the time of writing) while children pay USD26. Entrances can be found on 50th Street between 5th and 6th Avenues. 11pm is when the last elevator heads up. Head to for more information.

Whichever tower you choose to go up, you’ll be rewarded with spectacular views. Art Deco lovers will also appreciate the stunning architecture at each of the buildings, and at the Rockefeller there’s even an Art Deco tour of the sculptures.

Give Lady Liberty a wave

Another must-do in NYC is a trip on the ferry to Ellis and Liberty Islands. Even if you don’t disembark onto the islands, you still get a fantastic view of Lady Liberty and the New York skyline from the boat. Tickets for adults cost USD18.50, children over 4 years USD9 and seniors USD14 – for more information about tickets and departures, head to

My friend Louise and I didn’t get the time to check out the inside of Liberty’s head, preferring instead to lark about at her feet. Truth be told, she was a lot smaller than I was expecting, but still a sight to behold!

Mark next to the Statue of Liberty NYC

We heard from others that the Immigration Museum on Ellis Island is a really riveting place and a must-see for history lovers. If you have relatives in the US, you’re likely to find records of their ancestors’ arrival at this place; the centre tells the story of the 12 million immigrants who came through the gates on the island to populate America.

Photo by Colin (hodgesce13) on Pixabay -  Ellis Island Immigration Museum photo

Take a walk

We walked a lot in New York City. Not that we didn’t want to, mind you. No one forced us to march around at gunpoint. And it’s not like we were avoiding the city’s well-connected but rather grubby subway system. We just love taking in the sights on foot.

From Central Park to Brooklyn Bridge, the city is full of great walking tours, and I’d recommend allowing at least one day of your trip for strolling around this city and drinking in the sights. A great website to find free walking tours is

A view of Brooklyn Bridge NYC

My two favourite strolls were the 30-minute crossing of Brooklyn Bridge (you can start at City Hall Park and take in the skyline as you make your way along it) and a leisurely ramble around Central Park. According to the Central Park official website, there are over 58 miles of trails all over the park, so there’s plenty to explore!

Iconic Meeting Places

Besides the Chrysler Building, the Flatiron and grand of churches like St Patricks in midtown Manhattan, there were two more buildings I had to see when I visited NYC: Grand Central Station the New York Public Library. Both feature in so many movies, and both have a certain energy about them in different ways. The gathering of people in these places for different reasons really caught my imagination.

A bird's eye view into midtown Manhattan

Standing in Grand Central Station, you have to marvel at the volume of people coming and going through this space: Who are they and where are they off to? Once you’ve had your fill of people-watching under the starry ceiling, you can have a spot of lunch at the Dining Concourse. According to some residents, the Oyster Bar on the lower level is worth a visit.

The interior of Grand Central Station NYC

In the New York Public Library (the Stephen A. Schwarzman building, to be precise), we saw an exhibition about the early days of the city, back when it was called New Amsterdam. Seeing the old maps and drawings from those pioneer days was a fascinating reminder of how humans can radically change their surroundings. It was hard to imagine that the New York skyline once just featured windmills! The collections in this Beaux-arts building frequently change but there’s always something to see, and best of all, entry is free!

Fun in Theaterland

Broadway is as much a part of a NYC experience as the Empire State Building or a Liberty Island ferry trip. On our first visit, we mistakenly thought we could just rock up in Broadway and spontaneously catch a show. Turns out that it pays to book in advance in New York, as most performances are sold out at least a day before. We managed to get seats for a show called “The 25th Annual Putnam County Spelling Bee”, which turned out to be hilarious, even though none of us had ever heard of it.

The second time I visited NYC, I learned my lesson and made sure I booked our tickets for the hit musical “Wicked” well in advance. My then-boyfriend and I weren’t disappointed. Anyone who’s seen this inventive, flamboyant “untold story of Oz” will tell you that the songs are as fabulously camp as Dorothy in her Ruby Reds, and the costumes and effects are dazzling.

Billboards in NYC

Head to the official Broadway website to check prices and showtimes of your favourite musicals and plays and book your seats in advance to avoid disappointment.

Feed yo’ face

Something that goes hand in hand with a night out on Broadway is a theatre dinner, and there are hundreds of places that offer pre-theatre menus all around Midtown Manhattan.

We ended up in an Italian restaurant, orgasming over tiramisu, but I honestly couldn’t tell you the name of the place. While I’m failing as a travel-blogger to recommend a personal experience, help is at hand in the form of the NY Eater, whose website not only lists the best places to have a pre-theatre meal and drinks, but also includes a handy map to find them.

Mark and friend Louise enjoying tiramisu a bit TOO much

While you’re walking around NYC, I’d also recommend dropping in one of the countless diners and fill yourself with blueberry pancakes and limitless coffee. There’s something quintessentially American about eating out at these places. Most serve a menu of fry-up food that’s far from anything healthy, gluten free or vegetarian, but if you’re after some hearty comfort food, these venues are ideal. A favourite of mine is Manhattan’s biggest, the Tick Tock Diner on 8th Avenue.

A more sophisticated and memorable eaterie for me is Fraunces Tavern at no.54 Pearl Street, not far from the Whitehall St Subway station. We picked it out because I have a thing for historical, quirky places, and this 18th century restaurant is in one of NYC’s oldest buildings.

Fraunces Tavern NYC

For more places to eat out in NYC, head to The Guardian’s top ten restaurants and for vegan friendly joints you can check out this list of restaurants compiled by

Art and culture

Like any modern metropolis, New York City leads the way when it comes to traditional and modern art. There are so many permanent and temporary exhibitions all over this city, it’s almost impossible to put together a list that won’t create a 5-page blog post. Instead, I’ve included my top three, plus a museum I really wish I’d made time to visit.


The Museum of Modern Art is one of those galleries that polarises art lovers, because there’s always going to be someone who argues whether a room where the lights go on and off every 5 seconds constitutes as REAL art (True Story: This piece was installed in the MoMA by Martin Creed in 2007).

But the MoMA does have some stellar pieces in there too, such as van Gogh’s Starry Night and Dali’s Persistence of Memory, not to mention other hugely important pieces by Picasso, Chagall and Monet.

When I was there in 2009, I saw a fabulous temporary exhibition about the director Tim Burton that featured his sketches, paintings and movie props, so it’s worth looking at the MoMA’s online calendar of events before you go.

Weird sculpture at the Tim Burton exhibition at the MoMA NYC

Adult admission is USD25, students USD14 and seniors USD18, while children go free. For more information and ticket bookings, head to the MoMA website.

The Solomon R Guggenheim

This place is worth going to just for the striking architecture. Designed by Frank Lloyd Wright, the circular structure houses masterpieces by Cezanne, Kandinsky and Gauguin. Once inside, you’ll find parallel levels tiered up to a glass spiderweb skylight, which gives the impression of standing in a shopping mall filled with priceless paintings, or a rather clean multi-storey car park.

The Solomon R Guggenheim Museum

Tickets for this gallery are priced at USD25, unless they are changing the exhibitions, when prices are lower. Every Saturday between 5.45pm and 7.45pm, visitors can pay whatever they want! For more information, visit the Guggenheim website.

Metropolitan Museum Fifth Ave.

This is a museum I missed out on, but I’ve read so many good things about it, I couldn’t not include it. As well as paintings by masters like Edvard Munch, David Hockney and Michelangelo, there are collections of beautiful objects from all over the world exhibited here. From Japanese textiles to Roman metalwork, there are weeks’-worth of stuff to gawp at.

You can buy tickets online at the Met Museum website, with adult entry at USD25, seniors USD17 and students USD12, but if you purchase tickets at any museum counter, you can choose how much you’d like to pay. Tickets also allow same-day entry for other museums such as the Breuer Gallery and The Cloisters. (NB: the photo below is NOT of the Met Museum, but the Flatiron one instead...!)

The Flatiron Building NYC

American Natural History Museum

Another place that needs a whole day to fully enjoy, the American Natural History Museum is full of the stuff that turns adults into big kids and kids into science boffins: huge dinosaur skeletons, meteorites and minerals, the story of early humans and a vast array of creepy stuffed animals. There’s a centre for Earth and Space with a huge planetarium, plus a discovery room for families with small children.

It’s open daily from 10am to 5.45pm, and tickets can also be purchased online. Adults pay USD23, students and seniors USD18 and children USD13. Special exhibitions require another ticket, so it’s worth heading to the website for the American Natural History Museum to see what’s on.

Nights out

The city that never sleeps has a well-deserved reputation for nightlife. From traditional taverns and sports bars to tiki lounges and retro cocktail joints, NYC has bars for all tastes and budgets. Its club scene is still one of the most exuberant and indulgent in the world, with rooftop parties and basement dancefloors all over the city.

Raising a toast to NYC nightlife

Clubs and bars come and go in a heartbeat, diminishing in popularity after being number one venues for months, often vanishing completely. Rather than try to suggest any of my favourites, I’d rather give you a couple of links to some suggested nightspots, courtesy of Time Out and the Thrillist.


A tale from the road: Chancing on a ‘secret’ New York nightclub

In 2007, I recall asking a store assistant in Macy’s for suggestions for a cool place to dance and drink in the city. We were fresh off the boat in NYC and totally ignorant of where was hot to hang out. I was told that a “secret” unmarked club called the Apartment (otherwise known as APT) was somewhere in the Meatpacking District. All we had to do was ask a cabbie to drive us there. None the wiser about alternatives, we followed his instructions and found ourselves outside a non-descript old apartment block. There was no queue, no doormen and no sounds of thumping club music. We thought we’d been pranked.

Suddenly the doors to the block opened and a guy tumbled out into the street.

“You lookin’ for the club?” he drawled, “It’s in there…” and he jerked a thumb to the lobby of the building.

We gingerly entered, to find a doorman at the end, who was guarding another entrance that looked nothing like the door to a nightclub.

Before we could ask to enter, the doorman disappeared inside, while another patron exited and casually loitered in the lobby with us, lighting up a cigarette.

“You won’t get in there,” he smirked.

“Why’s that?” we asked.

“’Cause you need to tell ‘em the password.” He grinned. Pausing for effect, he eventually decided to let us in on the secret. “You gotta say you’re on the Pretty People List,” he said. And then he turned and left.

We approached the now-closed door, my four friends and I feeling rather silly and totally unconvinced that this phrase was going to get us in.

Suddenly the door opened, the sound of electro-funk spilling into the foyer. A woman with a raspberry beret and a cigarette holder greeted us with her chin pointing at the ceiling, “Yes?” she demanded.

There was a moment of bashful hesitation before I uttered the words “We’re on the Pretty People List”.

“Enter!” bade the beret-lady, sweeping her cigarette inside with a dramatic flourish.

We were in!

Having a raucous time in the APT club, NYC

The whole club lived up to its name as The Apartment (APT), with cocktails being prepared in what looked like a wood-panelled kitchen, a line of people waiting for what seemed to be the only bathroom, and a lounge filled with cocktail drinking revellers. It was a cosy but cool affair where we drank and danced for hours before leaving with an Irishman and heading off to his apartment on Bleecker Street in the back of a limousine (which is another story...)

The APT has since closed, but there are countless other exclusive bars hidden in basements all over NYC. offers a list of some of these “secret” drinking venues in New York. All you need to do next is find them…


Shop till you drop in SoHo

Before I became a minimalist nomad, I used to love a spot of shopping for designer gear. Back then I adored checking out funky stores and boutiques for unique items of clothing or ridiculously-priced sneakers. Now everything I own fits into a cabin-bag, and the idea of traipsing around stores all day makes me feel a bit sick…

If you’re an avid consumer, you’ll find New York is a shopaholic’s paradise and there are plenty of places for every taste and wallet. Head to this guide to SoHo shopping for ideas of where to bag a bargain or lap up the luxury.

Street scene with yellow cabs in midtown Manhattan NYC

My Wishlist

If I went to NYC again, I’d add Madison Square Garden to my list of places to visit and try to catch a music event there. The venue hosts huge sports games, big-name concert gigs and even dog shows in its arena. And if you aren’t bothered with checking out a match or a show, you can settle for a bite to eat in its restaurants instead. The website for Madison Square Garden lists upcoming events and more.

Another place I missed on my visit was the 9/11 Memorial and Museum. Although I feel there’s something a bit morbid in visiting an area that’s essentially the site of a massacre, you can’t deny such places stir up curiosity. I’ve heard from several sources that the museum is worth a visit, but I’ll leave it up to you to decide.

Adult prices for tickets to the memorial and museum cost USD24, and more information about the centre can be found at the 9/11 Memorial website.

You can also head up the One World Trade Center for views from the tallest building in the western hemisphere. Ticket prices start at USD34 for adults and can be purchased online at the website for the observatory.

Digital clouds in the buildings in NYC

My third addition to a wish-list for NYC is to visit The MET Cloisters in Fort Tyron Park. As a fan of Gothic and Romanesque architecture, I can’t believe I missed this on both my trips to Manhattan. The site is a collection of medieval stuff from genuine French monasteries. A bloke named George Grey Barnard worked with John D. Rockefeller Jnr to have the whole lot assembled in a museum in the park. It’s like a hidden slice of medieval Europe tucked into the metropolis. Tickets are a suggested donation of USD25, and you can enjoy some continental tea and cake at the Trie Café too.

Getting to NYC

We flew into JFK airport from London Heathrow each time we visited NYC, and found our flights using and

From this airport to Midtown Manhattan, you have lots of options:

You can get a taxi for a flat rate of USD52.50, but the tolls for the bridge and the gratuity charges will increase the cost. Travelling by road can take up to 60 minutes (traffic and weather permitting).

We preferred the AirTrain, which only cost us USD5 each. The rail link links you to the New York subway system and takes 50 minutes. Remember to include the USD2.75 subway fare, plus an extra dollar for a new card from a vending machine.

Eagle sculpture in NYC

LaGuardia (LGA) Airport is another international entry point close to NYC, which is close enough to Manhattan for a 25-minute taxi ride. Fares start at approximately USD30, with tolls and gratuity charges on top of this price.

Although there’s no direct train service to this airport, you can take one of two express buses which connect to the subway system in downtown Manhattan. Check the website and search for the M60 or Q70.

You can also find information for buses to JFK at

For private shuttle buses can be booked through SuperShuttle or Go Airlink NYC.

For private rentals, check out the usual firms such as Avis, Hertz or Budget.

Further reading

New York city is an overwhelming place, so deciding what to do during a short stay can be a challenge. Thankfully, the internet has a horde of experienced travel-bloggers who’ve each compiled their own list of must-sees and must-dos there. I’ve picked out three of my favourites that each offered an interesting and achievable itinerary for the Big Apple:




And if you don’t care for their tips, you can always try to follow in my footsteps instead ;-)

Wherever you wander in the Big Apple, I guarantee you’ll be razzle-dazzled by the glamour of this cosmopolitan city. If you’re

anything like me, you’ll be thinking about when you can return before you’ve even left!

Mark and Lou with the New York skyline behind

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